Sometimes we're stuck with people that don't do us any good.
People say you're born with family, but you choose your friends, implying that when friends become annoying you can un-choose them. Well, sadly, that's not the case. This is especially true of those friends who are entrenched in one's life, because they're also friends with one's spouse, or one's siblings, or one's parents; or they're part of a group of friends where it's impossible to exclude certain members from the things that you do as a group.
When something gives you displeasure, you mould the thing into a more pleasing shape. The same thing goes for people. When someone is being a pain, you talk about it. Hopefully the parties involved are able to turn a new leaf and set off on a new journey together that makes everyone happy, instead of one where they're rubbing each other the wrong way all the time.
Sometimes, though, there's one person who is so willfully dense that you just can't do anything about it. I am being annoyed by such a person right now. Boy, am I annoyed. I've always been annoyed by this individual, and at times I felt I overcame the annoyance posed by said person. But boy, I'm back to being annoyed. I think to myself, maybe it's me? But I think it's not me.
07 August, 2008
Nope, I don't think it's me.
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3 comments:
I think I have an idea how you felt. Either at the agency's gatherings, workshops or trainings I try to avoid this woman, the moment she opens her mouth, she annoys the shit out of me. So, it's not you.
I know exactly how you feel because I have a family member, an in law actually who is that character I would always want to avoid, but unfortunately, cannot... hrrrrmmmph
Yeah it sucks. I guess there's got to be at least one.
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